A guest post by Teresa Hodgins Power
Just Do It
When I turned 40 I heard that your eyesight goes, you start to forget nouns etc. Well, it’s true! I’m in the middle of a conversation and suddenly I can’t remember the next word that I want to say. I stumble through trying all different ways to remember.. you know the, the, the, fingers snapping, the thing, the one that goes with, well what do you call it when. As if the person I’m having a conversation with is the Encyclopedia of Britannica. Perhaps only those reading this over 30 will understand that reference!
For the eyesight that was a fun moment. It actually happened before I hit 40. I was at a conference and my schedule was on the back of my name tag on a lanyard around my neck. Thank goodness for elastic lanyards and long arms!
So now that I’ve turned 50 I think the next step in the evolution of a woman is forgetfulness. Walk into a room to do something and do something else. Or, walk out of the room before you even do anything because you’ve heard that if you re-enter the room you will remember what you were going to do there in the first place. Even that doesn’t always work for me these days.
So I have decided “JUST DO IT”! This may be the Nike marketing slogan, however it proves a good point. Just do it, when you think of it, just do it!! That goes for homework, housework, laundry, calling your mother, sending an email to a friend that you haven’t heard from in a while etc….
Some may say write a list. Well, for me lists don’t work. Either I forget where I put the list or forget the list at home, in my purse, when I go to do something that’s on the list. Here’s an example, my Honey gave me some buns the other day, we didn’t finish them at the Christmas dinner so we thought we would take them up to the out-laws for dinner the next day. I put them on the stove to remember to take. I should have put them right by my purse because about a kilometer from home, “did you put the buns in the trunk” … ahhh nope they are still on the stove. Needless to say my mother in law makes really good homemade bread and there was lots to go around.
Just do it!
This is not only going to help my forgetfulness it’s also going to help me. When something is accomplished I feel so much better about it. I’m going to come out and tell people when they look nice, yes complete strangers. I’ll walk up and tell them I like their outfit, they look nice. I’m going to make a phone call or send an email when I’m thinking about someone. Go get milk when I realize … darn see I forgot even what I was going to type …
Want to say something to someone, good or bad, get it off your chest. Say what you mean to say, spit it out. You will feel better for it, maybe not right away, but at least, you won’t be holding it in anymore.
When it’s something nice you want to say, say it often. I totally talk to strangers all the time now! I saw a beautiful outfit on a woman at the mall the other day and told her so, she was very surprised and thought I wanted something… Nope just loved the outfit. We don’t tell people enough that we like them, the way they look, their smile, their hair … Just do it!
Now that the new year is here there are a bunch of resolutions going around and this is mine, just do it!
Get out and enjoy life, don’t wait for it to come to you. Go grab it by the balls. Just do it!
Do something that you haven’t done before, take a course not related to your current job. Go take a pottery lesson, go hiking. Head to the museum to see that time limited display. Start volunteering with a charity, raise money for a cause that’s close to your own heart. Say good morning to that good looking guy/gal in the elevator, you might just meet a new friend.
These are just a very, very few ideas. For me it’s because I’m so forgetful now and I mean to expand my personal universe.
So I say just do it!
What do you say?
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